John Weeping

My brother in law has been through more tests than any body I know. He has witnessed her struggle with Cancer. He also has been blessed to be Julie's Beau or Dude.
He is working on a Cancer book. I cannot imagine the pain of watching your wife battle cancer. I love my wife Sue, and I can See the different type of pain that a spouse goes through. I made a sketch while I was grieving after her death. I am not a professional artist, but I felt her spirit in my hands as I worked the pastels.
Julie's death has helped me see my wife in a different sphere, I appreciate her love for me and are children. Sue was a big help in dealing with her last days, and her death. She was John's rock.

When we had to get a dress for Julie's visitation, we went to a thrift shop, for Julie would want that. Sue found the beautiful floral print dress, it covered her well. The goddess golden scarf Sue picked up at the Mall, this was all done in less than three hours.

Women are stronger than men when it comes to family a crisis,us men just watch and are dumbfounded by their resilience too pain, and emotional burdens.

enough I must sleep.